Most men are well aware of the fact that they could spend a lifetime on self improvement and still never be as classic as Sean Connery as James Bond but, that doesn’t mean that guys can’t take a few cues from 007. Here are five easy ways to be better right now.
There are plenty of things that men can do to improve their appearance over the long haul (like getting more exercise). But there are also some simple, small things that guys can do instantly to improve their image. Your appearance greatly impacts how people rate you on a daily basis… everything from how influential you are to how attractive you look. So, take the bull by the horns right now and make a difference in how the world sees you.
Some people say that a man is defined by his shoes. Although this is a bit of an exaggeration, many women do pay special attention to the shoes on a man’s feet. A great appearance runs from head to toe but it’s not just about wearing nice shoes; it’s also about keeping them clean and cared for. Invest in shoe care because clean shoes really do build a look.
Leather: Clean, condition, polish and protect. Avoid using alcohol based sprays as these will dry out the leather and cause it to crack. Using lotions will moisturize the leather and prolong its wear life.
Suede: Before the shoes are worn, spray them with a protective spray or finish to prevent stains and water damage. If this reaches you too late, then test a small area to clean first before tackling a larger stain. Use products only formulated for suede specifically. A suede cleaning block can be used to remove deeply nestled dirt. The nap of the suede can be revived using a suede brush, often made from brass. The block and brush are usually sold together as a duo.
Your clothes should fit comfortably and snug; giving others a reason to take a second look. Unfortunately, far too many men wear clothes that don’t fit them properly. Paying a little extra attention to what you wear and how it fits can instantly boost your appearance. Opting for a form fitting shirt can have you looking leaner and taller. You can tell if a top fits correctly by checking where the shoulder seam sits on your shoulder. The seam should sit on the area just before your arm starts; if the seam sits down the arm, the shirt is too large for you. On the other hand, if the seam sits too far up, then that shirt is too small for you. Also, wearing pants that comfortable snug fit enhance and elongate the appearance of your legs.
Ok, fair enough, Bond is probably not applying sun screen before he hits the Riviera… but you should! Sun exposure is the number one cause of visible aging, skin damage such as wrinkles, blotchiness, age spots and skin cancer. Although wearing sunscreen won’t instantly improve your appearance, applying sunscreen everyday will keep your skin looking youthful, healthy and clean. Healthy looking skin is an attractive quality. When shopping for sunscreen, look for the words “broad spectrum” on the label. This means that the product will provide protection from both UVA/UVB rays. The higher the SPF number, the more protection you will receive. Layering different products with different SPF’s will not increase the overall effectiveness of the products. For those of you who love to tan, tans are actually a visible indication of skin damage whereby skin produces more melanin to protect itself from further damage. Consider getting a fake tanner instead.
Our hair and the way we wear it significantly influences how we look. The right hairstyle can really elevate your appearance and the wrong hairstyle can really downgrade it. There are hundreds of possible hair styles but only a few that will properly fit your face and personality. Make sure to pick one that does both; seek out professional consultation if you are unsure which ones work for you. Once you have the right style, it becomes extremely important that you properly maintain it. Take care of your hair by properly shampooing and conditioning it. Schedule regular visits to your local barber or stylist. Depending on how fast your hair grows, that may be every three to six weeks. Many stylists also perform free cleanups of your neckline and sides between haircuts – it takes less than 10 minutes and can really help prolong your look. Lightly style with product but be sure not to go overboard or you may come off as looking greasy.
Your appearance is also greatly influenced by how you act and communicate. In recent years, there has been a lot of research focusing on nonverbal communication. A person’s body language can give away a great deal about their personality and current mood but it can also influence perceptions of you and how you look. Men who act and communicate confidently are actually judged to be much better looking than similar looking men who act and communicate poorly. Even though improving your nonverbal communication can instantly improve your appearance to strangers, the challenge comes in maintaining a conscious awareness of the message you are portraying to those around you. Next time you’re at a party, instead of crossing your legs and arms try loosening up with a more open posture. Crossing the arms and legs gives out a defensive and unwelcome vibe that will keep people at bay. And never slouch; it looks messy and gives off a sense of low self-confidence. Stand up straight and look people in the eyes when you talk to them.
Through our busy schedules and hectic lives, we sometimes forget to take care of our appearance. The key is to incorporate the little things and details into our daily rituals so we keep looking our best. RN